laws of attraction

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 Does their dissimilarity define the choices they make when choosing a partner...is it a level playing field...the end goal the same?...for men and women?

When the purpose be simply for sexual needs and desires to be satisfied...is the hunt different...the brain registering and ticking off other boxes as opposed to the boxes needed for a lifetime partner?

Or, is there something at play interfering and influencing choices at all levels, sexual or otherwise...from pheromones to our DNA make-up in addition to societal , peer and family expectations and pressure.

So...should a potential wife be dowdier in look and in bed less of a sex kitten, educated and of that sort that receives respectful nods as she accompanies her male counterpart to formal functions?...knowing what to say, when and where.

Why would a bottle blonde with a 34cc cup and legs for Africa not be just as perfect on the arm of her male counterpart...?...even if she may have posed for the Playboy centrefold?...who says she ain't in possession of a PhD.

As to men...does his car and profession 'vocalise' the need and desire of women ...a huge deciding factor be it for a one night stand or, husband material.?....who cares if he posed for FHM and showed off his pecks and flaunted his cock and balls in skimpy jockey undies...? 

Perceptions, presumptions, hypocrisy, egos and the fear of being judged or left behind ...playing a  huge roll  on important choices one should make that could, down the line, make a difference to happiness and contentment in ones lifestyle.

It seems the playing field ain't the same ...really...?...i am not sure anymore....for,  in their demand to be recognised and treated as equals...women have managed to place themselves in a precarious position where she now is not simply that one night stand or potential wife choice,anymore...it seems women have managed to level the playing field and now their male counterparts ain't that fazed about the bleached hair or skimpy skirt or if she has the PhD or not....how deep is her wallet (for she doesn't care for a purse anymore.....{hic....we must remember to be politically correct!})...speaks real loud.

One question remains....did Marylin Monroe leave a difficult legacy for today's women in general? The Catherine Hepburn's and Judy Garlands are the wives..while the blonde's are the mistresses....?...the sexy indulgences...the females more daring and adventerous...sigh....

"...happy bir...th...d...ay dear President..."

RB.

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