losing ones cool ain't cool...?

Losing ones cool ain't cool. Even if the situation be such calling for bombs to explode and and and.....a level headed logical response...after counting to 10....should always the best option be, reaping rewards and dialect further in the distant future.

It leaves doors open to continue finding a road forward, a solution beneficial to all parties involved.

Would those seeking a diplomatic approach, be more mature of character than those bulldozing all and sundry in ones way, when conflict arises? 

Having a loud and vocal voice, calling a spade a spade, makes one a  problem maker rather than problem solver? 

Does pussy footing and potentially sweeping matters under the carpet, lead to a society more amicable and peaceful, all striving to be the better person, cognisant of ones mistakes and thus subtly addressing and changing them, leaving in the wake of such correction, a more peaceful society aspiring to a state of amalgamated understanding of each others differences?
Or, rather... would it be correct to say that each situation is unique and one should know when to be a diplomat and when to have the courage to stand strong and resiliently defiant in the face of people and situations that deserve a direct hit at the core of a threatening stupidity to the intelligence of humanity and all things good.
Having the patience to nudge people and situations toward a harmonious outcome, when feelings unsettled may be bubbling, should be the best approach. 

But, what happen,s when the parties involved, are so pig-headed and defiant to any logic or arbitration thus pushing all the wrong buttons leading to an outburst loud, a physical manifestation such a slap in the face, a fight abusive.
Even the most diplomatic of people do have their limits, maturity of character not featuring, and they too know how to lose their cool and call out an idiot, a degenerate, whose sole purpose is to remain defiantly stupid in the face of reason and logic.
So the conclusion may be .....it may not be cool to lose ones cool.

But... sometime it may be necessary.

RB.