the most wanted lover

The most wanted lover....?

The art of knowing how to a lover talk. The art of knowing how to induce thoughts suggestive. The art of caring to read another to such an extent to have them desiring nothing more than your closeness.

It isn't an art...it simply boils down to caring, wanting to share, wanting to hear and know, caring to feel and understand the other, their need to be seen, acknowledged,  heard...made to feel important and worthy.
How self-centred we have become, how self absorbing and lost we are....how small our minds and world have become....our boarders defined by our gripes, judgements and experiences.

When another dares to voice an opinion, a worry festering, when another in their depressive uncertainty wish to confide, when another has the courage to share, ask, for they may not be certain

...what be our reaction.

When colour or creed or gender seem to be a challenge beyond our control and thus solace be sort in the company of the kind and understanding...do we recognise the compliment given if we happen to be that chosen one.
When a platform identified to share with others and give hope, when shortcomings of society pointed out 

...do we join the bullies and sneer with them in their vile attack at the share of a kind soul, a wise soul.

Now to backtrack....and even though my post went off on a tangent...think about it....

...the most wanted lover is the one with a wise and worldly mind
...the most wanted lover is a lover that does not feel foolish or called out in their caring of society
...the most wanted lover is the steadfast kind who has courage to stand in the face of adversity.


They be special for their minds, their being, their physical form will know to make you part of them and give of themselves to such an extent that nothing else really matters.

and thus to care for others,....means u know to care for yourself and most definitely would know to care for a lover and make them feel bigger than existence itself.



RB.