a discovery new...dare to travel it

To occupy a space sensual can be rewarding yet at the same time hold its frustrations at the inability of individuals to differentiate between a mind sensual and a mind sexual. Behaviour sexually inclined and that sensually inclined are two very different concepts yet, entwined.
There be a constant hurry or inclination to dabble in bodily favours where no time or effort or understanding be invested in a courting of the mind to slow down thoughts, breath deep and 'invert' oneself, looking for that connect of inner self, then redirecting it outwards, when in the company of another, who one is to share an intimate moment with.
A body semi-naked or completely naked is deemed by many to be a display of sexual desire rather than, maybe a titillating tease, without having to travel that road leading to coitus.
There be no greater satisfaction when one knows to selfishly let go and revel in ones own personal satisfaction and THEN turn the cards and return the favour .
When one chooses to experience a moment sensual, there be a need to understand what that actually means and that it requires much surrender of thought and body. To courageously expose and allow another to play...yes play through touch and look and talk ...suggestive.
Knowing to engage all of ones senses.
Be it a cruel game that some may label as a 'cock tease', leading to frustrations of no relief or release of pent up emotions and feelings, is a result of not letting go and immersing oneself in the moment.
Maybe one lacks the courage to expose ones innermost selfish thoughts of wanting to be indulged in, or maybe the misunderstanding that it is a one way stream where one must only give rather than receive.
Whatever the 'holding back' may be, when in the company of one who has the unreserved abandon to draw one into a indulgence seeping with erotic seductive sensuality then let go.
 Let go and trust them to lead...the journey of discovery will most probably be a new and all-encompassing one....thoughts realised....self redefined....moments wanted and experienced ....all because one dared to selfishly invest in pleasuring oneself....sensually.....a new awakening of what can be.

RB.