what is it that makes u doubt?...u yourself?

What is it that stimulates a person's mind and body in the most positive of ways. 
That knows to awaken thoughts fruitful, decisions firm and actions energetic and rearing for results.
What is it that drains one of hope and the need to apply oneself in ways rewarding and fulfilling and growing. 
How often does one get lost in uncertainty, indecisiveness, something holding one back, unable to pull oneself out of that rut that keeps one from taking that next step toward a form of personal growth, a progression toward a new goal.
Is it the environment one finds oneself in, that company kept, not comfortable in it, yet, accepting to be surrounded by such. 
That non belief in self that one is worthy of something better. 
A settling for second best for it is much easier to do that than imagine to fight the obstacles and uncertainties one would have to face. A fear of failure, a fear of the unknown.
If that be the case, then would it not be correct to imagine to surround oneself with those who know to remind one of all the good points one possesses, to remind one of that inner strength that we all possess. 
Would it not be fair and kind to treat oneself to a space in time with company, maybe daunting for they seem bigger than life itself, yet know to bring out the best in one. To treat oneself to those who are accepting of what they see before them, that understand how a human mind ticks and accepts a situation for what it is without being judgemental but, rather, constructive in their advise and guidance.
How often people find false friendships and align themselves to others knowing it holds nothing sustainable and good for the future. And even though that niggling truth does eat away at ones conscious, one tends to ignore it and then begins the slow downward spiral.
Not all that society preaches is right and not all that the majority accepts is right. 
What may be important is to know oneself. Why bother to lie to oneself? It doesn't change ones reality.
Having that courage to sit before a mirror and learn to love and hate and cry and laugh and...eventually....see oneself. See oneself for what one is...for once that has been realised, there be nothing or anybody that can make one feel less worthy than the perfect creature one is in ones own imperfections.
One tends to forget there is no such thing as perfection in the true sense. What many may be are those that know to progressively strive to be a better version of self as their days pan out before them. The desire to learn from ones mistakes and try very very hard not to repeat them.
To be perfect is to be the best imperfect one knows to be.....take a leap of faith....you may just be surprised at what you may find.

RB.