those that know what it looks like

There be those days when being pensive and quiet be brought about by something witnessed or heard. A nerve touched making one feel introverted in thought and questioning. A philosophical state of mind where there be no wrong or right answer.
It is not a state morbid or sad. One could view it as a state of growth...where existing beliefs are either re-affirmed or changed due to that new information and knowledge gained or witnessed.
To be open and receptive of ones surroundings, to know to hear and see...sense...movement, stillness....sound, silence....mood.
When occupying a space that can be daunting to another, the importance of being able to quickly put that person at ease and not be a threat, for they have walked into ones domain, and thus feel like a fish out of water.
Such are relationships of people mature of age. These relationships do not necessarily seek the adventure of achievement or proof of ones capability or value of materialistic gain or growth. It be a finer more intricate more real more deep search.
It be the search of another who has reached that state of comfort within oneself and understanding of what their whole life has been about. 
Another who has done their share working at life, leaving a legacy behind through their experiences good or bad. 
Another who eventually has understood that there be nothing labelled as perfect but, does know what near perfection means in realising life is beautiful and worth all of ones diligent desire to live it fully without hindrances unnecessary.
How beautiful and rewarding be a relationship when two  minds find each other , no hidden agendas, no fear of failure, no need of proof as to the sincerity of ones intentions.
There be integrity in the intent. ...a serene comfortable truth. And even when uncertainties or insecurities set in, the wisdom of a life already lived, knows to impart a solution as to addressing situations for it be important to keep that equilibrium.
One cannot be an idealist and believe that any relationship does not require a nurturing tlc approach...as already stated....nothing is perfect.

And thus today i sighed and smiled and something i knew was re-affirmed....relationships good, relationships sincere...do exist. There are those that know how to go about sharing a gentle all encompassing love with their partner...
Today i was pensive .
Today i smiled.
Today i am glad that i was not wrong about love in its truest form...it does exist. Some people know what it looks like, what it feels like and they do not fool themselves looking for a better version of it.

RB.